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[Kenturi]

Some thoughts from me,

@Quan

“…We suggest that each see a relationship as an opportunity to be in love with the Creator, to tend to an angel that is in your care, and to refrain from the judgment of behavior but rather find ways to express those positive aspects of love which come from the open, accepting and forgiving heart. We do not offer that which is easy to do as a suggestion, but we do offer that which is, shall we say, the higher path, the path that will tend to bring the relationship into its own balance, whatever that may be. For beneath the questions of this kind of love or that kind of love flows the current of friendship, companionship and that wonderful ease that comes to those who truly and unguardedly love.”

The questions are for example, how can you let yourself to love a sex worker, an adulterous woman, a greedy woman who earns money the most easy way for a woman - selling her body. Well, you have joy watching her, want sex with her, but it is also a humiliation on your part and neglecting your way of live you want to live. It is not about “judgment”, it is acceptance that your desire for sex is stronger than your values. Is that really acceptable and forgivable ?

@Quan

The catalyst, indeed, is the prize, not the problem, of the relationship

I think this can only be seen from “above”, the whole concept of “catalyst”, when you aware that you are incarnating to gather experience. Commonly among normal people this is expressed like “life is a lession”. I think in real life the catalyst is the problem and hindrance, because it takes time to overcome the hindrance to live a life you desire to live or which can be lived rationally. Simply put, you might “preprogrammed” such life experience that there is no way for you to feel content with life fully in your lifetime, which is cruel and not free. Edit 1: becoming a slave to the world in a sense.