Q’uote of the Day
November 18th, 1990
"The most common legacy of the childhood in your culture is low levels of admiration and love, nurturing and forgiveness of the self. The entire world of personalities you may well be willing to forgive; but you yourself are often dazed by such excellent [conditioning] that there is no way to please the self, each having internalized in its own way the negatives of parental disapproval and lack of understanding, verbal and physical abuse, often in subtle ways, that you have experienced. Once these patterns have been set up, and this occurs quite early in life, usually, the rest of the incarnation is spent upon an arena which has been constructed to challenge you with these seeming self-destructive and limiting programs within the biocomputer. After these biases are in place, more and more the entity will notice and be aware of those things which are relevant to its self-destructive concerns. "
It mentions here in ‘subtle ways’ so it may not be behaviours that may seem al obvious at all, just what seemed normal at the time.
“It is often the case for many of your peoples as they look consciously and carefully at themselves that they will see those portions of behavior that they do not appreciate and consider to be less than worthy of study, those portions which may be seen as inability to love, the ability to give insult and injury, the less than honest expression of truth, and so forth. Oftentimes these characteristics are ignored or discarded, hoping in the ignoring of them that they will disappear.”
This links to the above as its not easy for parents to honour and accept all parts of themselves, which can then reflect back on their children. Especially with those behaviors that may seem of the negative nature. As one grows in age, you can have that judgement of oneself linger.
“We suggest instead that they also be honored as portions of the self which have a role within the larger scope of the incarnational process and that such character traits or behaviors or beliefs might be followed to their source in order that the entity might discover a more complete picture of the nature of the self and the specific kind of balancing that is in process in the entity, for it is oftentimes true that the negative expression of a character trait is merely one end of a pole or a range where a more positive expression may be found if first the roots of both are uncovered.”
I am watching a movie now on this exact quote, in 1910 to 1970 indigenous population here many children were taken from their parents with or without consent an placed in foster care to be raised by parents on non indigenous culture here. The daughter grew up with wealthy family and lived a career focused life and did not respect her birth mother and culture it wasn’t until supernatural events occurred that she began to gain that and realise her own issues seeing all as equal, which the movie she just revealed now as im typing this. Ahh nice synchronicity! It was funny as I had feeling to include this quote and passage but brain was thinking why this.. maybe choose another but I continue see now why.
