Q’uote of the Day
December 14th, 2019
“The questioning has as its objective the chance to promote a wider point of view within the narcissist. The narcissist then, has the opportunity to be able to adopt a wider point of view that is seen as something that could benefit it, giving to the narcissist more of what it would truly desire if it is able to come into true contact with its own feelings and heart. Thus, each within the grouping that partakes in this process of questioning, then has the opportunity of serving the narcissist in expanding its point of view, and the narcissist has the opportunity of being able to reach into its heart for the first time in its life experience, to discover a self there that is its truer self.”
Todays quote and subsequent discussion will be exploring that term or concept of being a narcissist…its especially interesting further below when talking about this being more of a service to others trait that is chosen in this life…
Here is a description on that term itself by Q’uo…
"The term “narcissism” is one which has been much used throughout the psychological history of your peoples. It is a term which is usually reserved for entities which have such an overbearing and overweening opinion of their own being and abilities that they seem to be without any conceptual idea of the equality of all beings. Their conflated opinions of their natures tends, in many cases, to make them blind to those areas within their own being that may benefit from adjustment, shall we say.
The narcissistic point of view is that which in many instances appears to be infantile in its expression of selfhood. The self is seen as that which is supreme. It is that which is put forward constantly and unabashedly to others as an example of what others should be. This type of behavior is often rooted in a much deeper sense of the lack of self-worth, that then once begun to be recognized by the one expressing narcissism affects this entity in a manner in which hardens its position as one which is superior, though feeling inferior within. This sets up a dichotomy for the narcissistic entity, feeling that there is no firm foundation within itself for any real self-appreciation of the self, it then doubles down, shall we say, upon the bet that it is, indeed, supreme in some fashion."
Now the big point of all of this… when drawing this discussion to service to others…
"It is easy to look upon the narcissistic entity and imagine that one is seeing a negatively oriented entity that is attempting to follow the service-to-self path. However, as you have observed, such behavior on the path of the narcissist is so, shall we say, diffused and uncontrolled, that it is not likely that a truly negatively oriented entity would choose this type of means of expression of its desire to separate itself from all others about it, and to control them for its own benefit.
However, positively oriented entities who wish to offer themselves a great challenge within the third-density illusion, oftentimes program what you may see as the opposite of what one wishes to produce within the incarnation. This opposite programming, then, is followed as a means by which to realize the positive fruits of serving others after a long and difficult inner battle, shall we say, that requires that the narcissist be able to promote a greater and greater expression of its beingness in a manner which can be approached by those about it with the desire to accept what is given by the narcissist without taking it into the self as part of the self. In other words, refusing the narcissists definition of the other self as being timid, weak, or futile. This offers to everyone within the grouping dealing with the narcissistic behavior a great challenge.
However, much progress is made in the third-density illusion as a result of dealing with traumatic situations. These types of traumatic situations, then, carry a kind of weight within the total beingness, that is like unto the diver who competes in the diving championship, and chooses the difficult dive to attempt to win the meet or win the metal. The difficult dive, then, when accomplished successfully, gives more points in the overall event. Thus, the narcissist is doing much the same as are those who participate with the narcissist within the incarnation. Oftentimes the numbers of those so participating with the narcissist are few, for this is a very difficult type of pre-incarnative programming to undertake."
Connecting to this… albeit on a higher level is this question which is such a significance to all on service to others it just beckons to be included too…
" I do have another one. Ra has said that a perfectly balanced entity would respond to any situation with love and sees all things as love, and that to a perfectly balanced entity, no situation would be emotionally charged. I’m trying to understand what “emotionally charged” and “love” mean. Is it possible that a perfectly balanced entity could look upon a situation and still experience something that could be called sadness, or sorrow, or anger? Or are these things considered an emotion charge and a perfectly balanced entity would only experience the constant love within any situation?"
Here is the answer to this below
"I am Q’uo and am aware of your query, my brother. We note that the nature of the queries this afternoon deal with the most difficult of circumstances which most of the entities of your third-density illusion do not attempt within the incarnation. The perfectly balanced entity is quite rare within the third-density illusion. However, each seeker of truth is upon the path of attempting to reach the level of love and understanding that would result as a means of viewing any situation. There are, as you know, various gradations of difficulty that each entity within its incarnational pattern meets in its life pattern. There are challenges of one nature and another that seem to promote and provoke the charge of emotion either positively or negatively. Each entity is, indeed, the One Infinite Creator, and contains all of the universe within its own being. As the entity moves through the incarnation, then, it attempts to open the heart in unconditional love as its primary response to any situation which it encounters. The difficulty of the situations that are encountered then mean that such an entity will need to process the catalyst that has been encountered on a daily basis, consistently, so that that which appeared as one thing or another, that would be normally seen as a charged emotional situation, can eventually be balanced so that the observation of the seeker, then, becomes that which sees the Creator, knowing itself in each situation. Therefore, the response is love, for the Creator becoming able to know itself in every situation is the reason for the entire creation.
Thus, the entity who is able to see this more truly realized observation within its catalyst, in the daily round of activities, is beginning to see through the illusion to the truth of the situation. This is the great challenge—to find the love that is in every moment, in every situation, and in every entity within the creation. This challenge, then, provides an opportunity to move beyond the appearance of the illusion so that one is able to see the Creator within the self, within the other self, and within every situation and in every situation and in every other self, and the self, the Creator is seen as experiencing itself. Whether the situation on its surface illusory level may seem heartbreaking or heart opening, or difficult in one way or another, or joyous in one way or another, depends upon the growing ability of the seeker of truth to open the self to the greater reality that is the One Creator knowing itself."
Basically translates to this to see love in every situation, is seeing all yourself, everything and everyone as the one Creator knowing itself… by having this ultimate expanded viewpoint love can be much more obvious as the response. Just by having this knowledge and having it as a reminder is extremely powerful as it can bring that sharp focus to life in third density.