Level confusion at play.
“You” are not your incarnation. Your incarnation is simply a choice of how you chose to express yourself and experience yourself during a temporary physical lifetime in this density.
Ultimately there is only One Player in the Game of Life.
From within the Game it may appear as though there are many characters, and identifying with any of them as the “self” instead of the Player is what opens up the belief in possible specialness.
“My character is better than your character” becomes meaningless if The Player realizes he is stating this to Himself.